Early dating gifts
It’s hard enough to get it right with people you know well—close friends and family.Where do you even start to select a gift for someone you only recently met?In return, he got me an enormous bouquet of nothing. Don’t take it too seriously and try to have fun with it, because this will all seem like child’s play next year when you’re a real couple and you have to introduce them to your crackpot family. Double your chances and give Date Woking Singles a try for free today.He said he was broke, felt a little guilty and was touched at my efforts, but I could tell it was the beginning of the end. You're new beau's birthday is coming up, but even with six dates under your belt, you barely know the guy — let alone where the relationship's headed.Are you really expected to whip out the wrapping paper and ribbons?Or the worst — what if one person presents a gift and (gasp! I realize I am generalizing here, but in my experience, women have a tendency to go a wee bit overboard when it comes to giving presents. AVOID: Lingerie, jewelry, clothing, cologne, stuffed animals (we are grown women), a vibrator, anything sexual actually, the latest incarnation of World of Warcraft. At the end of the day, you know your not-significant other better than I do (because I don’t know them at all), so if you just KNOW she would go gaga over a Target gift card (cough) or you are POSITIVELY CERTAIN he would adore a frilly framed photo of the two of you (you sure, girl? This is merely a loose guide for the frustrated and clueless, and it gives you somewhere to start.A few years ago I went out of my way, searched high and low and spent far too much of my paycheck on a thoughtful gift for a guy I had been casually dating for several months (he kept saying didn’t want to “rush it”). Now, I realize some of you may be scoffing, saying to yourself, these ideas suck! Above all, keep in mind that while gift giving to new flames can be stressful, it is indeed a problem of the first world order.
You don't want to go too big, as it might make her feel uncomfortable (not to mention put too much pressure on a burgeoning relationship).
And not just “any someone,” but a person you think might turn out to be the romantic partner you’ve been looking for?
The key word here is “might.” After only a few promising dates, it is still too soon to tell.
"And always do what your heart desires, even if it feels silly." WHAT TO GIFT: As Flicker told us, "I always think the most special gift you can give is to buy a blank card and fill it up with something that comes from your heart." Keep things cheerful, throw in a witty inside joke, and that first date's practically guaranteed. But if it's the week of his birthday, offer to pick up the dinner tab, or, better yet, cook a romantic dinner for the two of you.
Maybe save the full 12-page love poem for your personal diary, though. Yes, even the worst cooks can perform this sweet gesture with the help of a meal subscription service like Blue Apron. "That's what matters." WHAT TO GIFT: Reading is for lovers.